Mark is one month old!

 

Just like that, our little boy is one month old! It has gone by so fast! Here are some stats about Mark and his first month of life:

 

*Still nursing every 2-3 hours and every 3-4 sometimes 5 hours at night! I am feeling super refreshed right now because I fed you at 9:00 last night and your daddy gave you a bottle of pumped milk around midnight. You didn't wake up again to eat until 5:30 so Mommy got a very long stretch of sleep!

 

*We just moved up to size 1 diapers this week!

 

*Still wearing mostly newborn clothes. Some 0-3 month onesies fit but when I tried on a pair of 0-3 month shorts on you, they swallowed you and wouldn't stay on.

 

*When we took you to the doctor last week to check on your lungs (swallowed meconium at birth) you weighed 8 pounds 6 oz! Up almost 2 pounds since birth, chunky monkey!

 

*You continue to be a very happy baby and usually only cry when you are hungry or this week when Mommy ate chinese food and it did not agree with your tummy!

 

*You love to watch your big sister and play on your playmat.

 

*We have taken you lots of places! It is so different with the 2nd child, Mommy is a lot less paranoid! We just make sure your carrier is covered so people do not touch you.

 

We love you baby boy! You have brought so much joy to our family!

Mark's Birth Story

Our induction date was set for Sunday, May 17th. We were told to report to the hospital at 6:00. That Sunday we went to church and then came home and spent some time with Kennedy before she took her nap. After I laid her down for her nap, I burst into tears. I was so emotional about leaving her! I went over to my friend Laurie Ann's house so she could French braid my hair. My hair was in my face a lot when I had Kennedy so I wanted it out of the way. Having some girl talk on her deck with her and my friend Jessica calmed me down a little bit. Came home around 3 and shortly after Nick and I said goodbye to my parents who were staying with Kennedy and headed to Cracker Barrel for an early dinner. Kennedy was still asleep which was a good thing because I don't think I could have handled that goodbye very well. After we ate dinner, we went to Coldstone for some ice cream. We arrived at the hospital early, about 5:30. When I went to be induced with Kennedy, there were a TON of people at the hospital and a bunch of other women in the waiting room waiting to be induced so we wanted to be there a little early. This time was completely different! The waiting room was practically deserted, only a family waiting on a baby to be born. I was the only one there to be induced! We got in a room within twenty minutes! With Kennedy we didn't get into a room until 10:30 and spent over 4 hours in the waiting room.


When we got to the room, we started all the questions, paperwork and the IV. My nurse was named Denise and was super sweet. She checked me and I was 1 cm dilated, woohoo! We started the Cervadil around 8:00 pm. Nick and I watched some tv and talked about what an easy start we were having. Around midnight, my nurse came to check on me and I was still awake, I just couldn't sleep! She gave me something to help and I woke up around 5:00 am having contractions. She checked me again. I was still at 1 cm, boo. I went back to sleep and woke up about an hour and a half later when my new nurse came in. Her name was Denise too. :) Around 9 am, Dr. Burns came in to see me and check me. At this time my contractions were getting stronger but not unbearable. I was STILL at 1 cm. Dr. Burns told me that even though I was still at 1 cm, I could go ahead and get the epidural if I wanted to. I felt silly getting an epidural getting an epidural when I was only 1 cm but I was worried that if I waited too long, the pain would get too bad. Yes, I am a wimp. So, I called for the epidural.


My anesthesiologist came in and ya'll, it was crazy, he looked JUST like McDreamy from Grey's Anatomy! I was like "whoa....!" LOL. When I had Kennedy the doctor had a really hard time placing the epidural and I got very wheezy and shaky. This time he placed the epidural in very easily and it really wasn't bad at all...so we thought. About 1:00, I started noticing that I really didn't feel very numb. I alerted my nurse that I thought my epidural was somehow wearing off. I then started feeling every single contraction, which at that time were about 2-3 minutes apart. My hats off to all you ladies that do natural childbirth. OMG....I was in so much pain. I was crying and squeezing Nick's hand and trying to breath. McDreamy aka the anesthesiologist, came back in and said he was going to try putting a different kind of medicine in my epidural. As soon as he did it, I started to feel very light headed and dizzy. I called out that I felt dizzy and my heart started racing very fast. I felt like I couldn't catch my breath. The last thing I remember was saying "I think I am going to pass out." I blacked out completely. When I came to, there were a bunch of people in the room and I had an oxygen mask on my face. Nick said he was terrified because my heart rate had dropped and so had Mark's and he could see it all on the monitors. McDreamy took out my epidural and while he was doing that, he discovered what the problem was. Apparently the epidural had somehow moved and gotten trapped in a blood vessel! McDreamy said he had read about this happening when he was in med school but he had never actually seen or heard of it happening to anyone. My nurse has been a L and D nurse for 18 years and had never seen it happen either. Of course it would happen to me! He replaced my epidural and thankfully, everything was okay and it worked well that time. I was so worried about Mark but Dr. Burns came in to check on me and said not to worry that he was okay.


The craziest thing is that while all this was happening, my mom, who was at home with Kennedy,  said she got a really bad feeling that something was going wrong. She went outside in the backyard to pray and my stepdad thought she was just being dramatic. Come to find out, it was exactly around the time I blacked out. Mother's intuition is for real folks!


About 3:00, Dr. Burns checked me again and finally I had progressed to 3 cm. He said although he was glad I had progressed past 1 cm, he was still nervous about the fact that I was progressing very slow. He said he would be back to check on me at 6:00 and we would go from there. I was a little anxious because I thought "oh man I am going to end up having a C-section!" But then I remembered that we originally thought that with Kennedy because I was progressing very slowly and then everything happened so fast near the end. Well, that's exactly what happened this time. Shortly before he came back to check on me, I started feeling a TON of pressure, like I needed to push. My nurse checked me and I was between 8 and 9 cm! She called Dr. Burns and he said "okay, looks like we will be having a baby within the hour!" Right at 7:00, I was at 10 cm and ready to push! This time was so much easier than Kennedy. I only pushed through a few contractions and at 7:22 pm, Mark was here! He weighed 6 pounds 10 ounces and was 19 inches long!

Unfortunately, he did swallow some meconium and he had to be checked out right away by the baby nurses. I got to hold him very briefly and then he was whisked away to the nursery. They came back and told me that his blood sugar was low and he had to be given formula, which really upset me because I had wanted to nurse right away. Fortunately when they stabilized his blood sugar, they brought him to me to nurse and he had no problems latching on. He has nursed like a champ ever since! They also were able to suction all the meconium out of his lungs. His pediatrician says his lungs are all clear!



I did not have to have an episiotomy this time, praise the lord! I did tear some and had to be stitched up but it was nowhere near as bad as Kennedy. I think it was because Mark had a much smaller head than Kennedy, hehe. Recovery has been sooo much easier this time.

We are so thankful that Mark is here and healthy. Despite the crazy situation with the epidural, I think everything went great. We are loving being a family of four!

Meet Mark! Aaaand, Kennedy is officially 2 and a half!

 

Our family is complete! Meet Mark William Kaune! Born May 18th at 7:22 pm. He weighed 6 pounds 10 oz and was 19 inches long. We are so in love with our sweet baby boy!

 

Here are 5 things about Baby Mark:

 

1. He is an awesome sleeper so far! He gave us a 5 hour stretch of sleep when he was 3 days old. Kennedy didn't give us that until she was almost 3 MONTHS old!

 

2. He is nursing like a champ and I am excited that I have had no supply issues this time around. He eats every 2-3 hours during the day and at night about every 4 hours.

 

3. He loves his swing! Again, very different from Kennedy, who hated it.

 

4. Only cries when he's hungry. Such a relaxed baby!

 

5. Loves his big sister and loves to watch her and hear her sing to him.

 

Kennedy has been an awesome big sister. She absolutely loves her baby brother! Here are some pictures of her meeting him for the first time in the hospital:

 

 

Our friends Jessica and Joe came over and took some newborn pictures of Mark. I thought they turned out great!

 

 

This one is my favorite! Isn't he adorable?!?!

 

 

I absolutely love this one of Kennedy and their daughter Janna, who is one of Kennedy's best friends. These two little girls love each other so much!

 



 

Also, as of yesterday, we officially have a two and a half year old in the house! I can't believe in 6 months, Kennedy will be three!

 

 

Here are some things about our 2 and a half year old:

 

*Wears all 3t clothes and a size 7 shoe.

*Loves to play "pretend" with her dolls and doctor kit

*Loves to dance and tumble! We have signed her up for a summer gymnastics class that starts in July.

*Loves to play outside.

*SOCIAL BUTTERFLY! Kennedy doesn't meet a stranger. She loves to play with other kids and talks up a storm. People constantly think she's older than she is because of her size and also because she speaks in full sentences.

*Still continues to be "all girl", loves to dress up and won't leave the house without a bow in her hair.

*Still in pull ups. Potty trained as far as pee-pee but refuses to poop in the potty. Our pediatrician said her son refused to poop in the potty until he was 3 and half. Lord, I hope that's not the case with Kennedy. 

*Loves her baby brother! Kisses him allll the time and loves talking to him.

*Current favorite tv show is Sophia the First and favorite book is Pout Pout Fish.

*Loves to play with Janna, her cousins Marley and Tabatha and at school her best friends are Emma, Kylie, Creighton and Garris.

 

Her cousins Marley and Tabatha came to visit last week and to see Mark and they had a blast playing dress up.

 

 

 

I am linking up today for "Oh Hey Friday" and "5 on Friday" even though I totally cheated and did more than 5 things. Ooops, sorry! I had to make up for the lack of blog posts in the past 2 weeks! Stay tuned, I hope to have Mark's birth story posted sometime next week. We had quite an eventful labor which included a scare but we are so blessed that everything turned out okay and he is healthy. Also, my recovery has been much better than it was with Kennedy so that has been great.

 

 

 

Thanks for reading!

 



 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 



The day before induction....

This past week has been a whirlwind but we are finally ready for Baby Mark! The pack and play is set up, car seat is installed, hospital bag is packed, etc... I started my maternity leave last week because of some bad swelling. Being on my feet all day was making me miserable but I have never been the type of "sit behind my desk" teacher so I just couldn't stay put like the doctor wanted me to. I am still not dilated as of my 39 week appointment last Monday...no surprise there. I am going in tomorrow night to be induced and Mark should be here on Monday! In the meantime I am spending lots of time with Kennedy, going on lots of walks and eating lots of pineapple as always! 

I am so ready to have to meet him and cuddle him but still having some anxiety about Kennedy. This morning she broke my heart. She looked at me and said "Momma I go with you to get Baby Mark?" Tears immediately filled my eyes. I explained that she was going to stay at home with Nana and Spike but she was going to get to come visit. I also kept telling her that I was going to come home after a few days. I am so worried that she is going to think I have abandoned her. :( But as my friend Cindy pointed out, the good news is she won't even remember this down the road. We have been doing as much as we can to make her feel extra special including taking her to Build a Bear this week for the first time to make a "big sister" stuffed animal. She chose a pink monkey that she named "Pinky" and had a blast making her.

 

This past week we also celebrated Aunt Augusta's graduation from USC with a cookout at our house. The next day we celebrated Mother's Day, which was extra special because I got to spend it with my mom and Kennedy together for the first time. My mom and stepdad flew in from Oregon the day before.

 

 

 

 

This week has been so busy that I haven't even stopped to take a "belly picture" and to be honest, I haven't really been motivated to do so. I am so grateful for the little boy that is inside of me but I am just not one of those people that has that pregnancy glow. I look at pictures of myself lately and cringe lol.  I do hope to take one last "family of 3" picture tomorrow before we go in to the hospital.

 

 

I will hopefully try to at least do some sort of birth announcement post next week but I am not making any promises...I have not been a motivated blogger lately. I do love Facebook though, so find me on Facebook: Carol Bennett Kaune. We are so excited to meet our baby boy and complete our family! 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

5 on Friday-woohoo for actually participating this week!

I haven't participated in this link up in awhile so I am super excited to be here! It's been a long week! Giving state standardized testing while 37 weeks pregnant is no joke! My feet are killing me so I am treating myself to a pedicure after work today!!!

1. We celebrated my hubby's 36th birthday on Monday! Very proud to call this man my husband! He is a wonderful father and such a hard worker. Sorry for the blurry Iphone photo but this was all I got! Kennedy wanted to wear her cupcake outfit to school for Daddy's birthday.

2. Who has seen "The Longest Ride?" My friend Jessica and I always go and see every Nicholas Sparks movie that comes out. This one did not disappoint! I loved the back story!!!

3. Anyone been watching Teen Mom OG? Gah...the drama is insane. Farrah is such a miserable human being. I don't feel sorry for her at all. I do feel sorry for Gary's girlfriend Kristina...yikes. I am not sure if Maci is really leaving the show because of Farrah but I hope she doesn't. I don't like Farrah at all and I obviously don't agree with her life choices however I agree with the producers, all of them have made bad life choices, including Maci, who is knocked up for the second time out of wedlock. I like her but she ain't no saint herself.

4. This is so late but I never got to blog about it. The weekend before last, my mom and grandfather came to visit. My mom had flown into Kentucky to spend a week with my grandfather. He has been diagnosed with prostate cancer and has decided to do a year of hormone therapy but he does not plan to undergo chemo or radiation. He will be 86 in June and feels like he has already lived such a great life that it's not necessary to put his body through all that. So, I was very glad that he and my mom were able to drive down for the weekend. We usually go visit him and my step-grandmother every spring break but it's an 8 hour drive and I just wasn't up to it this year considering I was 8 months pregnant. We had a great visit with them, just hanging out around the house, playing with Kennedy, eating out and having Pops experience his first contemporary worship at our church! He took out his hearing aids and said the music didn't bother him as much as he thought and he really enjoyed the sermon. Score!

5. I had my 37 week doctor's appointment on Wednesday. Still not dilated, no surprise there! The plan is to induce May 18th if he does not arrive on his own before then! Meanwhile, family members are betting on when he comes. I have to say I will be surprised if he comes on his own so I think it's quite amusing. My mom thinks he is coming on May 15th. Nick thinks he is coming on May 9th but I think he's just saying that because it's my sister's college graduation from USC that day and he doesn't want to sit through the commencement, hehe.

This is what you look like when you are 37 weeks pregnant and you have spent the day giving state standardized testing to 3rd graders then coming home, pushing a stroller for a mile walk and chasing a 2 year old in the backyard. It ain't pretty but it's real!  At least Kennedy looks cute!

We have really been enjoying spending time one on one with Kennedy. Next week we are planning to take her to Build a Bear for the first time to make a stuffed animal for herself and for Mark. The weather has been beautiful lately so we have been outside a lot. She has been super affectionate lately which I love but I honestly think it's because she knows things are about to get real....

I will leave you with some snapshots from the week: Kennedy and Grayson being silly after church, Janna and Kennedy at the park and Kennedy playing/cheesin' in the backyard.

I think that was way more than 5 things but I had to make up for the weeks I missed! ;) Have a great weekend everyone!



37 weeks, almost there!!!

I cannot believe that we are 3 weeks or less away from meeting our sweet baby boy! Here are some thoughts about 37 weeks:

1. I remember people warning me when I was pregnant with Kennedy that the last couple of weeks of pregnancy are "miserable." I never really felt that way with Kennedy. I was excited to meet her but I wasn't like "get this baby out of me right now!" I still don't feel quite that extreme with Mark but I do admit, I am more uncomfortable than I was at this stage with Kennedy. It's so odd because I know he's only a little bit bigger than Kennedy was but I feel HUGE and it's a lot harder to get comfortable when I am sitting down. I have also been having a lot more pressure and Braxton Hicks contractions than with Kennedy. So, needless to say, I am ready for him to be here.

2. It's looking like our induction date will be Monday, May 18th. I would love to go into labor naturally on my own but I highly doubt that will happen. I was never dilated at any of my appointments with Kennedy. I was absolutely ecstatic when I went in at 40 weeks 3 days to be induced and they told me I was 1 cm dilated, lol. I was not dilated at my 36 week appointment last week. My 37 week appointment is Wednesday.

3. I am hungry all the time! I can't get enough food!!!! Weight gain is now up to 35 pounds so it's looking like I will actually gain more this pregnancy than I did with Kennedy despite the fact that I was so sick the first trimester.

4. Last weekend we got the rock and play sleeper set up in our room and got out all the bottles, my breast pump and nursing supplies. We still need to install the car seat and I need to pack my bag for the hospital, that's on our "to do" list for this week.

5. Mark is still moving constantly, lots of big kicks and some rolls that can be painful at times but I am savoring every last one of them since this will probably be my last pregnancy.

6. Kennedy talks about Mark all the time! She is really excited. I really hope she stays this excited when he gets here!

7. We had another shower at work last week. We got so many cute clothes for him, he is going to be a very well dressed baby! We also got some things off our registry, swaddles, bottles, accessories for his crib and changing table etc...Oh and diapers, galore! Although I think we are going to end up exchanging some of them because we got a TON of size 1's.

Things are getting real........enjoying this time as a family of 3 but ready for him to get here!

Baby Shower for Mark and Family Pictures!

My sister in laws Gretchen and Rachael and my best friend Megan threw us a small baby shower for Mark this past weekend. We didn't need much since we have a lot of gender neutral items from Kennedy but it was great to get some baby boy clothes, diapers and a few other odds and ends that we had registered for. I love Mexican food, so the food was Mexican themed. We had a mini taco bar, homemade chips and queso, corn dip,  guacamole deviled eggs, and virgin margarita punch, yum. My mother in law made a fabulous strawberry cake, which is my all time favorite! Kennedy had a blast helping me open presents and hanging out with everyone at the shower!

 

 

 

 

We played this hilarious game that Megan found online. It was a relay race game and everyone on your team had to blow up a balloon one by one and put it under their shirts like a baby bump. Then after everyone on your team had their balloon blown up, you had to pop them one by one. We found out my SIL Gretchen and I suck at blowing up balloons, lol, it took us both forever to get our balloons blown up! Gretchen's team still managed to win though!

 

 I think Megan looks adorable with a "baby bump!" Totally ready for her and Brent to have a baby!

 

We are so blessed to have such an amazing group of friends and family!

 

 

My friend Valerie took some maternity/family pictures for us this weekend. She posted a sneak peak on Facebook and I am in love with them!  Kennedy was being such a ham and loved saying "cheese!" I can't wait to see the rest. A lot of people have given me grief about the fact that I let Nick keep his hat on, but that's my hubby for you. You rarely see him without a hat on so it just seemed natural to let him wear it.

 

 

I am 35 weeks today! Wow! My feet are officially fat and swollen so I have special permission from my principal to wear flip flops (against dress code) to school. I am also soooooo tired all the time, very similar to 1st trimester. I can't get enough sleep! Still getting bad heartburn and indigestion at night no matter what I eat. But guess what? It's all worth it! Unless God has a different plan for us this will be my last pregnancy so I am trying to savor the feeling of all the kicks and flips in my tummy as much as possible!

 

Have a great week everyone!